Sunday, September 12, 2010

Effective Parenting...

Don't we all want the perfect recipe to raising children? I know I do! Does it exist, I don't think so but we as parents can do everything in our power to learn and grow in God's word. I started a 9 week class today at church that I contemplated as to whether or not I was even going to do but I'm so happy I decided to. Robert was out of town for the weekend so I'm looking forward to him joining me next week. I'll share with you weekly some of what we're learning. Today was about building relationships that bond. In a world of chaos, work, meetings, events, etc.. it is so important to keep a calendar and schedule time for just your family. One thing that really hit a chord with me today was when Chip Ingram said "positive parents build relationships that bond." It is our job as parents to reflect a positive and happy attitude towards our children. I am naturally an upbeat and positive person, it's very rare that I see the dark side of things. No matter the circumstance I find something positive from it. I truly want to pass that on to Abigail because through life's ups and downs that has always helped me stay strong and on the right track. Not to mention my strong faith and relationship with God. Another thing Chip said today was that tension, stress and difficulties are all normal, they are all a part of life. It's how we handle those three words that's so important. Here are a few tips for building strong relationships with our spouse and children.
  • Unconditional love
  • Focused attention

  • Dinner together (I grew up in a family that had dinner together EVERY night so I know first hand how important this is)

  • Ongoing communication

  • Shared experiences

  • Schedule time

  • Have FUN together

  • Eye contact

  • Pray together OFTEN


Postcards from the weekend.





G'night...xoxo

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